Sexiness is defined in many ways. Some say it’s the way someone looks. Others say it’s a personality trait. There are even those who think nerds are sexy. The following is my definition.
- Good Looks: Yes, this is important. It is the “instantly sexy” man who has good looks. Is this what I look for? Not really. It’s just eye candy.
- Personality: This is what draws a woman in and makes her feel comfortable. It is important, but is this the most important trait for me? No. It is nice to have but only goes so far.
- intellect: A man with a brain (Yes, they do exist!). SEXY! I love discussing my opinions with a man who, not only has opinions of his own, but respects mine as well. My ideal man will stay up til the wee hours of the morning discussing a wide range of subjects. The more he knows, the sexier he is!
Now, don’t get me wrong, I enjoy #1 and #2 but they are just icing on the cake. Looks fade over time and personality only goes so far without a brain to back it up. The intelligent man is the one that I want to spend forever with.
It’s your turn: What do you think is sexy?